If you’re feeling stuck in life, chances are you are carrying around a whole lot of dead carcasses in your brain – thoughts, beliefs and mental procedures which no longer serve you.

Your brain runs on procedures – and sometimes your life experiences corrupt and infect the core information in your brain, preventing you from being decisive, taking action and being in control of your life.

What your brain needs is procedures which work, instead of relying on what Aunt Mary told you about relationships… what your teacher told you about not being able to have whatever you want. Someone else told you that you have to follow the rules of society to get anywhere and then on top of that some things didn’t work out for you in life – and you decided to believe you are not good enough.

This kind of incomplete or misleading information fills your brain and confuses you – and holds you back from enjoying yourself and having fulfilling relationships. Nobody taught you the correct procedure to manage the sexual pressure in your body, or deal effectively with your emotions to stop yourself from feeling overwhelmed by them.

You were never taught the essentials for enjoying and maintaining a high level of connection within yourself and in your relationships, heck, you weren’t even taught HOW TO BE in a fulfilling relationship.

So now your brain is filled with incomplete procedures made up by everyone elses opinions and beliefs – and you wonder why you feel so confused and alone.

My role is to help you untangle your brain and show you the essential procedures YOUR BRAIN NEEDS to be able to start your life anew – a life filled with hope, well-being and total fulfillment. I’m going to help you grow as in individual and then help you to achieve and maintain a high level of relationship – instead of feeling alone and simply struggling to survive.

Whether you are seeking my guidance for yourself, your business or for you and your partner, I am committed to your healing process. What you believe you can achieve! On the other hand, if you’re not putting in any effort to make changes and if you’re not committed to improving your life, then how can you expect a better result than what you currently have?

Know that your brain lies, cheats and is full of @#$&%! Your mind will try to justify that everything is going to work out ok, even if you do nothing to solve your problem. However, if your brain doesn’t have the correct information necessary to deal with a problem, you CANNOT SOLVE the problem.

There is a lot of information available on the internet, much of which is conflicting and confusing to you. You may feel overwhelmed that your problem seems incurable or you may just tell yourself that it is too hard and you’ll do something about it later. This is the biggest mistake you continue to make.

Every time you refuse to directly deal with your problem, you add more junk to clog up your brain. This is making you feel even more alone, confused and indecisive; and eats away at your remaining self-esteem, self-confidence and self-worth.

If you have a problem, deal with the problem and you no longer have a problem!

My teachings are applicable both on a personal and business level – apply them to your work life as well as your personal life and you will see immediate improvement in both.

First we need to unravel your brain and empty out the incomplete information which is confusing you. Then I will give you the CORRECT information and procedures necessary to understand yourself, your partner – and to lift your ‘A’ game so your life (and your relationships) are operating at the highest level – instead of being complicated and filled with tension.

All of my sessions can be combined so you can benefit from a combination of coaching and bodywork if you so choose. Often the bodywork will help you to integrate a particular teaching, as in the tantric healing massage for premature ejaculation.

Sessions can be conducted in person, by phone or as online therapy via Skype. Please remember to book your space early.

International consultations are available online via Skype video in the comfort of your home, or you may visit me in-person at my private premises in Auckland, New Zealand. I guarantee 100% privacy and confidentiality.

If you are unsure of which session may be best for you, please contact me directly. A short discussion will enable me to direct you to the most beneficial treatment to sort your problem forever. Please rest assured that ALL of my sessions are 100% focused on showing you how to heal whatever is challenging you, both on a personal and relationship level.

Coaching and Guidance
The procedures I teach you will remove the confusion from your brain and take you to a whole new level of engagement within yourself and your relationships. These techniques are applicable to enhance every aspect of your life and are extremely valuable for business relationships, your ability to lift your sporting game AS WELL AS your personal relationships.

Investment: $150/hour / $220 hour and half / $300 two hours in person (NZD)
Online Therapy sessions $120 /hour (payment required advance of session) (USD)

Sensual, Emotional & Spiritual Healing
Whether you are single or in a relationship, you must deal with the lack of information your brain has access to, to sort out your problems. These sessions will help you to deal with your resistance towards fully experiencing your sexuality and your emotions to ensure you achieve balance and harmony in your life.

Tantric Healing Massage – Learn the switching technique which allows you to accept enjoy (and regulate) the presence of sexual pressure in your body – regardless of when it is present!

Premature Ejaculation & ED Cure – Heal Premature Ejaculation & Erectyle Dysfunction forever with this UNIQUE and proven method. This method is unavailable elsewhere yet it is the most effective treatment plan for healing PE and ED.

Sensual & Emotional Healing – Guidance, Coaching & Energy Management. Learn how to switch between thinking and feeling so you can stop feeling overwhelmed. Ideal for if you have suffered from sexual, emotional or mental abuse.

Investment: $150/hour / $220 hour and half / $300 two hours in person (NZD)
Online Therapy sessions $120 /hour (payment required advance of session) (USD)

Couples Training & Relationship Services
To create awesome relationships, you really need to lift your ‘A’ game – how you relate to yourself and your partner. Understanding your partner’s needs is as essential as understanding your own needs. Verbal, non-verbal and intimate touch techniques are taught in these relationship healing sessions.

Making Love Better – Intimacy healing for couples. It’s really important to understand how your brain holds on to the past and how to switch your awareness into the present moment. Then learn how to lift your ‘A’ game for partner AND yourself on an intimate physical and emotional level.

How to Love A Woman – For men who want to raise their intimate ‘A’ game or just plain understand how to relate to women! Emotional and sexual energy management is essential to prevent scaring her off. Women LOVE confident men. These teachings will change your life.

Tantra for Women – How to Love a Man – for women who want lasting intimacy on an emotional and physical level. The ‘honeymoon stage’ lasts forever when you are using the correct procedures for lasting intimacy.

Investment: $150/hour / $220 hour and half / $300 two hours in person (NZD)
Online Therapy sessions $120 /hour (payment required advance of session) (USD)

Everything you have ever wanted is achievable – but only if you believe it, and dedicate yourself to following the procedures I teach you to take you there. If you are operating below par – and you know it – then you will never get to where you want to be. You have to apply yourself and be committed to your process. Remember that your brain will always lie, cheat and make excuses.

Do you have any questions or concerns? Please contact me – I am here to help you.

Jacqui Olliver – Relations Strategist, Healer, Author & Speaker Phone: +64 9 5707 223 | Mobile +64 (0)21 815 029 116 Mt Wellington Highway, Auckland, New Zealand Skype: jacqui.olliver (online sessions available via Skype) Email Me jacqui@nharmony.co.nz

Want to Consistently Feel Good?

Relations Strategist Jacqui Olliver

Your personal development needs to encompass every aspect of your life – mental, physical and emotional. Any issues unresolved will lead you to feelings of separation – within yourself AND your relationships.

Ever notice how your mind chews over the tiniest thing? If you want to feel consistently good, then make sure you are addressing every problem in your life.

Want to improve your work life, your personal life and your relationships? Then deal with those mental monsters which are eating away at you.

My partner has a saying: if you have a problem, deal with the problem and you no longer have a problem.

Remember that you cannot heal your problems unless your brain knows EXACTLY what needs to be dealt with. If you are only partially dealing with your problem you will never be completely rid of it.

Life will always bring you the answers – or guide you to someone who has the answer to your problem.

I am now offering a new BREAKTHROUGH TECHNIQUE to heal ALL your problems FOREVER, found at http://HealAllProblems.com

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Is Your Imagination Getting the Better of You?

When we are children, we feel into our imagination – and create. When we grow up we imagine in our minds – and then worry about what we have created.

A child feels into their imagination to create excitement, fun and fantasy. An adult uses their imagination to worry about what is coming, judge themselves and others – and imagine what they don’t want.

So who feels better about their creations? A child feels excitement, is happy about their creations. An adult is fearful; and worried about their creations.

Children are more in the now – they focus on feeling.
Adults are more in their minds – and focused on thinking.

Children express themselves in the moment.
Adults hold on, because they think too much, instead of allowing themselves to feel.

Whenever you are focused on thinking, you will use your imagination to create what you don’t want. Feeling follows thought – so thinking about your problems may create a mountain of unwanted emotions.

Feel into your body so you can stop thinking. Feel the sensations of your emotions in your body. Simply focus on feeling.

Remember to KISS – keep it sensationally simple – that’s what children do. A child simply feels into the moment. Until children go through the schooling system and are taught how to stop feeling; then they become locked into thinking and using their imagination to worry – just like we do.

A child is carefree, until they are taught to suppress what they are feeling. An adult is locked in fear-based imagination – until they remind themselves to feel.

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Jacqui Olliver – nHarmony
Personal Development Expert & Relations Strategist

Unless you are taking 100% responsibility for yourself you will find yourself blaming another person for making you feel a particular way, when they trigger you. This post is all about facing yourself – what it means, how to do it and how to stop yourself from getting stuck in the cycle of blame and resentment…

When we are triggered on a very deep level, this is the time we are most unwilling to face ourselves. This is often when a deep, ingrained fear has been triggered. It is at these times that we will blame (and resent) another person, or an outside situation for how we feel – and refuse to face the fears within ourselves.

Here’s an example from my own experience. Previously I had been in a long term relationship where my partner was dishonest – he would tell me a whole lot of excuses instead of telling me the truth about a situation. From the continued experience of this, I became hyper sensitive to what I perceived as weakness and dishonesty.

Whenever I felt that someone was being untruthful to me, it would trigger a LOT of uncomfortable-feeling sensations. Most of those sensations I would suppress or ignore. My suppression developed a hidden fear within me, of experiencing weakness and dishonesty in my relationships.

I more recently experienced an opportunity to face my fear of dishonesty when my previous partner innocently triggered me. Instead of telling me his truth directly, he told me a bunch of excuses; which triggered all of the fears and emotions I had suppressed in my earlier relationship.

Because I stopped the sensational feeling of my fear and my emotions; I judged his inability to tell me the truth as weakness. There was no way I was having THAT in my current relationship. I felt completely turned off… physically and emotionally.

When I suppressed the feelings which were triggered by my last partner, I immediately began judging, blaming and analyzing him. I felt that it was his fault, his problem – a weakness in him. I didn’t see his behaviour as a reflection of my own suppressed fears.

Really, the weakness was mine – I had stayed in the previous relationship (with a gambler) for way too long a time – instead of having the courage to walk away. Living in deception creates many fears.

When it was pointed out to me that it was just my own fears that had been triggered, then some REALLY uncomfortable feeling sensations surfaced! So I allowed myself to feel them – instead of repressing them again. And you know what? After I had cleared my own resistance (I just faced what I was feeling)… that was when I realized that my last partner actually had the strength and courage to honor himself at a very high level.

He had done it in what appeared to be a weak way, but there was a dynamic strength beneath that I hadn’t initially recognized. Now that I was clear of my OWN resistance, I was able to see this truth.

Does this ever happen to you? Do you shut down (and turn off) when someone triggers your stuff? Or do you face what you are feeling?

Facing yourself means facing what you are feeling – at all times. When you are feeling overwhelmed, focus on feeling the sensations of overwhelmed. When you are triggered by another person or a life situation, face yourself by self-focusing – and feel into all those uncomfortable-feeling sensations that have surfaced within you.

If you are judging or analyzing anyone or anything, you have stopped the sensational feeling… and you are back in your mind again…

If you are resisting ANY area of your relationship with life, then you will lose the feeling of connection – with yourself and with others.

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Jacqui Olliver – nHarmony
Personal Development Expert & Relations Strategist

Being stuck thinking in the pain-filled process of your conscious mind keeps you stuck in a cycle of resistance – attracting more of what you don’t want! This article shows you the easiest technique to clear away your confusion and start manifesting what you want.

Why is it that no matter what you say or do, you still aren’t getting what you really want? You do all the right things, say positive affirmations until they come out of your ears… and you still don’t have what you want. WHY???

Have you ever stopped to see where your focus most consistently lies?

Do you have a clear feeling picture of your ideal outcome? What this means is, do you clearly see (and feel) yourself succeeding? Or do you constantly allow your conscious mind (the part of your mind whose job is to analyze problems) to take control of your direction, by constantly focusing on what you don’t want and don’t have?

When you are focused in your conscious mind, you will be constantly judging and analyzing everyone and everything. You will judge yourself on your past; and you will constantly worry about your future. Consistently keeping yourself stuck remembering the past and worrying about the future. Using your imagination to create more of what you don’t want.

It is impossible to change your current situation while your focus is predominantly in your conscious mind. Your conscious mind will always play games with you – and it’s not a game you will enjoy playing.

The key to getting what you want is to STOP your conscious mind from thinking about what you don’t want… Self focus on feeling all those uncomfortable-feeling sensations that surface with your thoughts… feel them with your body instead of thinking about them with your mind. This enables you to access your subconscious mind. Remember to KISS keep it sensationally simple!

Access the domain of your subconscious (higher) mind via your sensational self – then you get to play the game of creation. Every emotion felt as pure sensation will enter you into the domain of your higher mind so you can play the game of creation. What do you really want? Focus on the successful feeling of having it; while you are feeling clear of resistance.

Always use the opportunity of having zero resistance to keep yourself focused and energetically aligned with what you really want. It’s essential to have a clear-feeling outcome (a success picture) ready for you to focus on feeling into once you reach the point of zero resistance.

If you want a 1/1 session to eliminate your self-doubt and confusion on exactly how to do this life-changing technique (so you can get more of what you want; and less of what you don’t want) then contact me now to book your session.

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Jacqui Olliver – nHarmony
Personal Development Expert & Relations Strategist

Making Peace with You…
Do you really have to wait for… or… before you allow yourself to feel; and make peace with you?

If you knew beyond a doubt, that you really matter – would you make peace with you? If you knew that your smile lights up the room when you share it – would you share your smile more often?

If you knew that when you show your tears, it makes it safe for others to shed their own; would you let your tears shine your face more often?

Do you know that when you are just being being you, you make the world a brighter place to be in? Did you know that life is richer because of you?

Did you know that when you show that you have colorful emotions, the other people around you are less afraid to show theirs? Do you know how to feel (and clear) your emotions instead of being overwhelmed by them?

Do you know that YOU matter????

Do you know that you are a sensational, radiant person, who loves to feel sensationally ALIVE? Do you allow yourself to feel sensationally alive? Why not? Are you afraid of being present? Do you want to feel sensationally present?

Feel into the sensations of your resistance; and you will instantly become present. Let the feeling of every resistant emotion you have… The sensation of every sexually aroused feeling you currently repress… Let ALL of these sensations be felt, so you can become sensationally present.

Being out of your mind is quite literally the best place to be. Stop thinking about why you think you are feeling something. To stop thinking, you have to start feeling. You can only be present when you are feeling.

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Jacqui Olliver – nHarmony
Personal Development Expert & Relations Strategist

What Has Your Problem Taught You?
We talked about how disempowering it is to talk about your problems; and to think about other peoples’ problems. We then looked at how to become empowered by your problems. Now comes the best part – sharing the lessons LEARNED from your problems

The best – and only – good time to talk about your problems, is when you have felt the associated emotions as sensations in your body, cleared the mental clutter and received your insights and clarity. Which goes something like this:

• PROBLEM
• Feel the associated pain – your emotions
• Mental clutter automatically clears
• You feel more connected and in tune with yourself
• You feel less overwhelmed – emotional burden has left you
• Space created by feeling – you receive insights and clarity

NOW is the time to share (what was) your problem and the wisdom gained – the understandings and solution/s you now have.

When you feel your way through a problem, you will ALWAYS gain insights and understanding on a higher level. This is because you access the answers in the correct part of your brain.

Remember:
Feeling the effects of your pain and problems (the sensations of your emotions) will always put you in the right part of your brain.
Thinking about your pain and problems (thinking about why?) will leave you feeling confused and alone.

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Jacqui Olliver – nHarmony
Personal Development Expert & Relations Strategist

Problem Solving the EmPOWERed Way!
We have recently discussed how disempowering it is to talk about your problems; and to think about other peoples’ problems. Now it’s time to show you how to be empowered by your problems.

The most important thing you really need to get your head around; is the importance of feeling. What feeling does:

• Clears your emotions – and emotional overwhelm
• Creates clear mental space – stops destructive thoughts
• Makes you feel more connected (instead of separate)
• Helps you feel less overwhelmed
• Puts you into the correct part of your brain to access answers

The truth is, when you feel into your body, you clear your emotions… which directly connects you with your intuition, giving you immense insight and clarity. This stops you from feeling overwhelmed, makes you feel calm… and automatically clears your mental clutter.

Thinking creates more confusion and overwhelm. When you stop yourself from feeling, you instantly start thinking about your problem. You are only ever thinking or feeling. Whenever you stop yourself from feeling, you automatically start thinking again.

Your conscious mind remembers similar situations where you faced a problem like this before; and then imagines what it might mean to you now. That part of your mind constantly analyzes and judges; never giving you any peace.

Whenever you feel tempted to talk about your problems, you are moving away from the clear insights and intuition you will receive if you simply focus on feeling the effects of your problems – your emotions. Focus your attention ONLY on how your emotions feel in your body.

Thinking will always bring you confusion and disconnection. Feeling will always bring you clarity and peace. You will feel a brief moment of calm as you reach zero resistance. This is when you can CHOOSE which direction your focus goes to next. Will you follow a thought, or will you feel into your sensational self?

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Jacqui Olliver – nHarmony
Personal Development Expert & Relations Strategist

The Danger in Sharing Your Problems
The biggest problem about sharing your problems, is that you overburden other people when you do it.

When you offload your problem/s onto another, it can make them start thinking about your pain and your problems – adding to their own.

This can be especially destructive to women. The reason being is that a woman’s brain is wired in such a manner that she is constantly thinking. There is no switching into ‘cave time’ for a woman, she’s quite literally stuck with whatever she is thinking about.

Now take for example once more, about telling a woman about your problems. Now, as well as her own problems to deal with, she is now also thinking about (and feeling the effect of) your problems. Not because she wants to, but because her brain is wired to be constantly thinking.

And unless she has the tools to process her emotions (like the techniques you learn with me) then she will be stuck with feeling yuck – and wondering why she feels so off key. See how you are adding to another person’s burdens by talking about your problems to others?

What you need to do to get out of this habit – men and women – is to FEEL the effects of your problems – which are your emotions – within your body. This will keep you focused on FEELING instead of thinking. As you may have noticed, thinking about your problems never makes them go away…

Ever noticed that when you offload your problems, you also feel like a part of you is missing? There is a reason for this – and we will cover it soon. When you resist facing what you are feeling, you will feel disconnected and alone.

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Jacqui Olliver – nHarmony
Personal Development Expert & Relations Strategist

Do You Celebrate Being You?
Watch this 12 minute video to find out Why You Feel Like You Don’t Fit In… Why it Feels Uncomfortable Being You… Why Your Busy Mind Drives You Crazy… and the Magical Formula to Feeling Good!

Are you too busy judging yourself and feeling unworthy? Why do you try to change yourself? You only need to let yourself BE.

Whenever you match yourself against someone else’s standards, you stop yourself from feeling uniquely connected within you.

Even though it sometimes feels uncomfortable being you, who else is better qualified for the job? When you try to be more like everyone else, you lose your sensational sense of self.

There is a reason why you don’t fit in – and that is because you keep yourself feeling separate. You are an essential piece of life’s puzzle, but you constantly deny what you are feeling – and so your piece of the puzzle never feels like it fits.

Every time you deny how you feel… every time you refrain from speaking your truth… Every time you be less of who you are, to feel like you fit in – or to feel like you belong; you lose your unique sense of self. Every time you deny your uniqueness, you stop yourself from fitting in.

Every time you judge yourself from being ‘less than’ you prevent yourself from feeling connected – with you. Unless you are feeling connected with you, you will find it impossible to feel connected with others.

When you push your feelings away, you energetically keep yourself feeling separate – which also keeps you feeling separate from others. This is why it feels like you just don’t fit.

The more you resist your own feelings, the more others will be resistant towards you. The more you resist being you, the more others will resist you being as you are. Everything in life is interconnected; and energy is felt.

The reason you are experiencing your challenges in life, is to become more of who YOU truly are. The more you resist being you, the more challenges you will endure to face yourself. You are uniquely you; and your challenges are uniquely yours – so you can discover your true self; to begin feeling uniquely you…

Why are you in such a hurry to get to your end game? How about finding your sensational self first; and sharing that awesome, unique being with others? This is when you will feel connected; and this is when you will feel whole.

The more you try to resist who you are; the more the universe (and life) will resist back to you. To find lasting peace, you simply need to be yourself. You were born unique for a reason – the reason is, to simply be you.

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Learn how to END your sexual, emotional and relationship problems now!
http://HealAllProblems.com

Jacqui Olliver – nHarmony
Personal Development Expert & Relations Strategist